May 20

7 Secrets to a Sexier You!

7 Secrets to a Sexier You, in Just 7 days!

Day One: Indulge yourself in a self-massage. That special oil that you’ve been saving- use it on yourself. Start with a bubble bath. Put on some soft music like Sinatra or Diana Krall. Light candles, relax and really touch every area of your body, and get in touch with all the little areas that turn you on, smooth your hands over your arms, belly thighs.

Day Two: Get Naked- look at your body, really look at it. In front of a full length mirror if possible, and use a hand mirror too. Look at every part of your body and the “so called flaws”. Remember and reminisce about when and what caused the marks and embrace them.

Day Three: Wear beautiful undergarments just because it makes you feel more confident — only you know it’s there. And just knowing is powerful. Plus a little peak of lace at the décolleté or through the sheerness of a blouse is very sexy. If you don’t own any beautiful lingerie, splurge on yourself. It will make a world of difference.

Day Four: Stand tall and embrace your body. By now you have touched your body, massaged your body and looked at the beautifulness of you. Showing confidence and a positive body image attracts others. It gives you that Je Ne Sais Quoi about you- Confidence is sexy, no matter what size you are.

Day Five: Make eye contact. Yes, that demure glance down and look up into the eyes of another, especially with a lock of hair falling in your face. Hold eye contact when you are talking to others and you will feel empowered and that is sexy.

Day Six: Try something new. Is there a hobby you have wanted to try but haven’t? A restaurant? Never gone to a movie by yourself? Rock climbing? Today, Do it! Take the time for your interests and make it a priority.

Day Seven: Meditate or just sit in stillness and enjoy the moment. Turn off your phone for even 5 minutes. Sit, relax and have a quiet cup of tea, give gratitude for who you are, the body you have and how it holds you up every day. It supports YOU! Be grateful for YOU!

Bonus: Schedule a play date with yourself. Intimately enjoy yourself and create your own self love. Use your favorite toys or your hands and really turn yourself on!

May 07

I Am Putting What… Where? Chemicals in Common Products We Use

I recently wrote this article for The Balanced Mom Magazine. http://www.balancedmommagazine.com/
The skin is the largest organ of our body. Everyday, we spend more and more money on health and wellness products, making it a more than a trillion dollar industry. But what are we putting on our skin, or even in the most absorbent areas of our bodies, our intimate parts? The chemicals found in personal care, sexual wellness and beauty products pass through the skin, tissues and membranes and into the blood stream where they are carried throughout the body. Our magnificent bodies are on toxicity overload, storing the toxins in our tissue, especially in our fat cells. More and more cancerous tumors that are removed contain chemicals that are ingredients in topically applied products.
Toxins in personal care, sexual wellness and beauty products can be categorized into some of the following areas: neurotoxins, endocrine disrupters, irritants and allergens, and kidney/liver poisons. They are linked to many types of disease, including infertility, birth defects, skin problems, and even cancer. Oncologists, doctors specializing in cancer, often advise their patients to not use products with parabens. Parabens are chemical preservatives used widely throughout the beauty industry. You can find them in toothpaste, shampoo, conditioner, moisturizers, shave gels, lipstick, liquid foundations, and personal lubricants, among many others. Some studies suggest that parabens, once absorbed through the skin, act like estrogen possibly increasing the chances of developing estrogen-dependent conditions. Why is this chemical in almost every single cosmetic and personal care product that we use as women, if cancer doctors are saying not to use products that contain this toxin? It is still considered a “controversy” by many… The beauty industry will say that it uses minute amounts that are harmless. Perhaps if we used only one product that contains this prominent chemical preservative, it would be harmless. But on a typical morning, a person, especially women, may use multiple products containing these low amounts, compounding the effects. We have a choice of the products that we use, but it takes knowledge of what is in the products and the time to search out only the highest quality items.
When looking at sexual wellness products, such as personal lubricants, Glycol is a common ingredient in most commercial brands. Propylene Glycol is a faintly sweet and colorless, clear, viscous liquid that’s derived from natural gas (sounds sexy, doesn’t it?) It is found in Anti-Freeze. It is what is sprayed on airplane wings to de-ice them and it’s strong enough to remove barnacles from boats! The EPA considers Propylene Glycol so toxic that workers are required to wear protective clothing and warns against contact to prevent abnormalities to the liver, kidney and brain. Polyethylene Glycol (PEG) – a carcinogenic petroleum ingredient that reduces the skin’s natural moisture and can increase the appearance of aging. It is often used in oven cleaners as well as antiperspirant.
Another item on Heathkeepers Magazine’s “Dirty Dozen” is Sodium Hydroxide. This is also known as “caustic lye” and is found in drain cleaner, and things like toothpaste and commercial personal lubricants.
It is important to look at sexual wellness products, because they are applied to the most absorbent parts of our bodies, our mucous membranes. Looking at a popular water-based lubricant, marketed to women, it is alarming to see the ingredients. This particular lubricant is glycerin- free, which is a plus since glycerin is a sugar and sugar feeds yeast, disrupting the PH balance of the vagina. The ingredient list is as follows: Water, HEC, PEG45, Methylparaben, proplyparaben, ployquaternium5, tetrasodium edta, germall II, sodium benzoate, aspartame, polysorbate 20, Aloe Vera extract, Ginseng extract, guarana extract, avena sativa extract, sodium hydroxide, propylene glycol, citric acid. Please note that is does state “For Topical Use Only”. However, most women use lubricant internally or sexually with their partner. Doctors are now saying that the ingredients in the most popular brands of commercial personal lubricant actually kill sperm and can this can cause issues for those trying to conceive. Another, lesser known and available lubricant company, Sliquid Organics, is made in the USA and their Natural Lubricant contains: Purified water, plant cellulose (from cotton), Organic Aloe Barbadesis, Vitamin E, Guar Conditioners, Organic Extracts of Hibiscus, Flax, Green Tea, and Sunflower Seed; Citric Acid, Rose Ether.
Which would you rather be using on your private parts?
Another product that can be harmful to our intimate, absorbent areas of the body, are some Adult Toys. There are currently no regulations on Adult “Novelty” products, which adult toys are commonly marketed as. In fact, chemicals that have been outlawed in children’s toys, in both the US and in Europe, are still allowed in adult toys. Phthalates (pronounced THAY-lates) are a chemical compound added to plastic to make it soft and flexible. They are commonly used in the production of adult toys to provide a realistic feel, both in very inexpensive jelly toys and high-end skin-identical toys. Again, when picking out products, look for high-quality items that are made out of body-safe materials, such as silicone.
Glass toys are also becoming increasingly popular, but be warned not all glass is created equal. Glass made in China can contain any material, including lead and mercury. American-made glass, such as the tempered glass from Phallix Glass is lead-free and dishwasher safe. Borosilicate glass, marketed under the name brand Pyrex, is often recommended by doctors because it is non-porous and sanitary and can withstand extreme temperatures and physical shock without compromising the beauty.
Recently, thanks to an innovative marketing campaign by Sir Richard’s Condoms, it was brought to light that the majority of latex condoms are thinned with fillers and also contain casein, derived from dairy products. With so many people avoiding dairy for dietary reasons, beliefs, or allergies, it is hard to believe that it would be found somewhere so unexpectedly. Latex allergies are real and increasingly common, but perhaps some are a dairy allergy instead of a latex allergy.
Please look the next time you grab something for your beauty routine or intimate encounter… it may not be what you are expecting to be absorbed into your body.
For more information: www.safecosmetics.org, www.thegreenguide.com, www.cosmeticdatabase.com


Tiffany Alyse Yelverton, Owner/Sexinista
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Feb 01

More on Squirting, aka Female Ejaculation

Here is a really good source, but each article pretty much contradicts each other on where the ejaculate comes from!!! UGH!! Is it really that hard to figure out???

http://askdanandjennifer.com/sex-intimacy/orgasm-videos-tips/female-orgasm-squirting-101-video/

Jan 30

HELLO…..Touch

Received our 1st shipment of JimmyJane HELLO Touch yeaterday! I am like a kid in a candy store, and the goodies get delivered right to my door! This toy is freaking amazing!!! So light weight and whisper quiet. My lover really enjoyed the vibrations on his nipples, his scrotum, and the shaft of his penis. He couldn’t believe how quiet it was. I was worried that it might be a little cumbersome with the wrist band, but it is practically weightless. After M was thoroughly satisfied, I handed over the Touch to him. He easily slid the light-weight band on and the finger pads and headed to my clit. Wowza!! It really added a zing to our fun.
We were both very satisfied, to say the least. I can see these selling like hotcakes!

Jan 27

Aneros hits 1 million units sold and wins Xbiz Men’s Product of the Year

Some more about one of our favorite men’s products… Straight from the Aneros Website.
Aneros products are hands-free, internationally patented devices specifically designed for prostate, or Male G-Spot stimulation. Using no batteries or electronically induced vibrations, our products transform the body’s own energy into amazing sensations. The mechanism is simple, but extremely effective. With our products, a man can achieve strong, continuous full-body orgasms previously unattainable through conventional sexual techniques. These orgasms are so earth-shattering that they deserve a special nickname – The Super Orgasm, or as our enthusiasts prefer, The “Super-O.” A Super-O is entirely different from a traditional penile orgasm – it is characterized by pleasure starting from the lower abdomen that awashes the entire body in a state of bliss. The man does not ejaculate during a Super-O. This means there is no “recharging” or “time out” period needed. Through practice, a man can have these orgasms, one after the other during sessions lasting for an hour or more at a time. Even short sessions can feel long as our customers have reported that during Super-O sessions their “beds shake uncontrollably” and they “lose all track and sense of time.” Aneros products can also be used during traditional sexual encounters. During oral sex and traditional intercourse, when the man uses our products he will be harder, last longer, and have better control. His prostate will empty more fully during ejaculation, which means a more intense and satisfying orgasm. This increased sexual performance is a great secondary benefit for the partner as well. Aneros is a great way to explore and expand your intimacy with your partner. Visit our Learning Center for more information on the Aneros Experience

Jan 23

Another View on Female Ejaculation/Squirting

Jan 22

Date or Ditch Game Show Hits the OC!

Date or Ditch Game Show Hits the OC
Irvine, Ca. January 21, 2013 – Looking for a hot date this Valentine’s Day? Why not attend an old school dating game? Mingle All The Way and The OC Social Butterfly are bringing Date or Ditch, an old school dating game, to the OC on Thursday, February 7, 6:30 – 9:30 p.m. at the Posch Restaurant, Irvine’s premier events space.
To be hosted by Hollywood heart-throb, Benjamin Mathes, and international relationship expert, Amy Cheryl- this quarterly event promises participants a chance to meet the hottest singles in the OC and be an in-studio guest. During the LIVE SHOW, the audience can help the featured sexy bachelor choose a date. There will likewise be a meet and greet, mixer, paparazzi hour and an After Party.
Admission tickets include drinks, dinner, two raffle tickets, VIP Access to the After Party, and live entertainment from the amazing contestants. Tickets are available at the door or at www.dateorditch.eventbrite.com. All guests and contestants must be 21 years old and above to attend.
About Mingle All the Way and OC Social Butterfly
Mingle All the Way is an events company created by Taryn Dicterow and Courteney Kay to provide opportunities for amazing people to connect and have fun. The OC Social Butterfly is DeAnna DuPree, a fierce and fabulous meeting & event planner, social media trainer/strategist, etiquette coach, and author.
For more information about Mingle All The Way, please call 714-318-3189 or 760-519-4385 and for The OC Social Butterfly, please visit www.facebook.com/SimplyDeAnnaDuPree.
Contact:
Date or Ditch Game Show
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www.minglealltheway.com
www.date-or-ditch.com

Jan 15

Hot off the Press–JimmyJane HELLO Touch

January 15TH, 2013
Jimmyjane Launches hello touch, Putting Vibration at Your Fingertips
San Francisco, CA., October 1, 2012 – Jimmyjane, the design-centric brand and leading innovator in the sex accessories market, is pleased to announce the introduction of hello touch, a vibrator that’s worn on the fingers to enhance your natural touch. hello touch is the first in the new hello line of Adaptable Vibrators designed by Founder and Chief Creative Ethan Imboden.
More Vibration, Less Vibrator.
Unlike any vibrator previously available, hello touch features a pair of ultra-compact Vibration Pods, each enclosed in a supple silicone Fingerpad. When worn on the hand, the pods resonate, putting the power of dual motors at your fingertips. Now, familiar strokes offer all new sensations. “hello touch is wonderfully intuitive”, says Imboden. “You touch naturally but get supernatural results – there’s nothing to learn, and everything to discover.”
Recent studies underscore the logic behind Jimmyjane’s new vibrator design.
− Up to 75% of women require clitoral stimulation to achieve orgasm.*
− 87% of women masturbate with their hands, versus much smaller percentages using vibrators, shower
heads and other approaches.**
− 78% of women who use vibrators have used them with their partners.***
hello touch is a versatile response to all three interests, delivering powerful sensation anywhere hands may roam.
hello touch offers more than three times the power of the most common fingertip vibrators while taking up less than one third the volume. Unlike other fingertip vibrators, they’re perfect for internal or external stimulation, and won’t get in the way of your pleasure. Wear the vibrators on the index finger and forefinger to stroke and explore, or on the thumb and forefinger to grasp and squeeze. Position the Vibration Pods on the front of the fingers for direct contact, or on the back to expose the fingertips for increased tactile feedback. Try them midway down the fingers, or perhaps both on a single finger – explore freely to find what you like best.
Since Imboden launched Jimmyjane in 2004, the company has redefined the sex accessories market through innovation, placing the company at the forefront of creating pleasure products for a broad and discerning audience. As a vibrator designed for use by women, men and couples, hello touch is a demonstration of how much progress has been made in welcoming a wider range of pleasure seekers. “hello touch is truly a vibrator for all,” notes Imboden. “We’ve created it for everyone who likes to touch or be touched.”
* Understanding the Female Orgasm, Al Cooper, PhD, Sex Therapist, July 2003
** Journal of Sex & Marital Therapy
*** University of Indiana researchers, Hebernick, D. et al, Journal of Sexual Medicine, 2009
Known for leading through innovation, Jimmyjane is the only company in the industry to be honored with prestigious design accolades, including I.D., AIGA and IDEA awards. True to its design roots, hello touch will be launched simultaneously on www.jimmyjane.com and Fab.com, the global leader in online retail of design objects. In an interview with TechCrunch founder Michael Arrington, the founders of Fab recently revealed that Jimmyjane’s form 2 vibrator is the all-time best selling product on their site. “We’re ready to pass the baton to hello touch,” suggests Imboden.
All Jimmyjane designs feature medical-grade materials, are completely body-safe, and are backed by the company’s unparalleled Three Year Limited Warranty.
hello is a discovery, an introduction and a welcome. The company is delighted to get their latest innovations onto the hands of Jimmyjane fans worldwide.
Pleasure to the People
hello touch Wearable Vibrators for All
− Great for couples
− Waterproof & Washable
− Phthalate-Free, Body-Safe Materials
− Good to go, with microfiber Travel Case
− Batteries Included
− 3 Year Limited Warranty
$65 SRP
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http://www.enticeme.co/proddetail.asp?prod=hellotouch

Dec 11

Female Ejaculation

I have to say, as much as I love to orgasm, I think I may be becoming obsessed with ejaculating. It is just a completely different release. There are studies abound about female ejaculation, but none seem to agree. Why is it so hard for the medical and scientific communities to figure it out!!  So here is my two cents on the whole thing…

I really began my fascination with it about 3 years ago, when I was reading about Tantric Massage. I had had an incredible sexual experience several years before, in France, but I had no idea that I was ejaculating, I thought I was just extremely wet and turned on. About 3 years ago I began a sexual experiment and to begin my project, I started with Tantric massage. I had read that Tantric Massage released hurts,traumas, and other things from the chakra level. It balances your sexual energy,emotions and opens you up to new possibilities. I wanted to try it and clear out my past. I wanted to feel sexy and I was ready to start meeting men and have a relationship. The massage and ejaculations did what I was hoping for emotionally. I was left with a pile of soaked towels, as the practitioner said he had never experienced so much! But I didn’t orgasm. It was completely different.

Since then, I have ejaculated quite easily when I am really into someone.Some times I think about it too much or try too hard and it doesn’t happen. Some men are freaked out by it (especially younger men), but most absolutely LOVE it. I have found that it can happen with oral or manual stimulation, with a vibrator, like the Lelo Soyara, or with my njoy Purewand or a glass rotarywand. Occasionally it will happen during intercourse, but rarely. I know that it takes pressure on my clitoral hood, as well as stimulation of my g-spot. What most in the scientific community argue about it, is where does the liquid come from? Some say it comes from the urethra, but it is not urine. It is not even close to urine. It has a distinct taste and it is clear or slightly pink.

Most women ejaculate from a teaspoon to 3/4 cup. I find that I produce much more than that, especially when I am hydrated. And I know for sure that it comes from within the vagina, not from the urethra. It really wasn’t hard to figure that out! If I have a toy inside me, when I begin to squirt,  it is like the hole is plugged. But as soon as the toy is removed, it is a gush of liquid. Plus I can feel it coming on when i am stimulated. Therefore, it is obvious to me that it comes from within the vagina. I would imagine from the g-spot (urethral sponge), which is a bundle of nerve endings from the back end of the clitoris, from what I understand.

I was in love with a man who was amazing at making me ejaculate, or squirt… He could touch me just right every time and it would happen and happen very quickly and repeatedly. He was very talented. I craved his touch and the release. My body yearned for it. No one else had made my body so responsive.  That was until the other night. :) (I have had partners since who could do it for me but nothing like I experienced Before)

The other night my lover was over and had expressed that he wanted me to squirt on his face. Let me digress just a moment.. We have been seeing each other off and on for about 6 months and early on he was fingering me and all of a sudden he hit the spot! And he just continued tapping away and I squirted.  He was blown away by the whole experience, as he had never experienced that before. We talked about it afterwards and he said it was just like instinct kicked in and he knew what to do, but he had never done it before nor did he know what or how he was doing it. It was really fun.   Ok, so back to the other night. He just kept making me gush over and over and over. My bed was absolutely soaked (somehow the waterproof Throe fell to the bedside). We were both amazed! I only had 5 or so orgasms, but I must have ejaculated 15 times over the course of our play time! Soaking him, his face and bed. Now I am craving it all the time!! Next post I will talk about technique and how you too can ejaculate!!

Nov 27

Feeling Sexy

As a woman, we go through periods of ups and downs– times during the montwhere’re we feel sexier than others. What causes this? I know I am a “sexpot” as one of my admirers told me last night, but what is it about male attention that makes us (or at least me) feel even sexier? It doesn’t matter if I am even interested in the person. I have to say that it me smile smile and have a little more spring in my step when I am flirted with or get attention from the opposite sex. Is it just me?

I also feels sexier when I where a beautiful bra and matching panties. Does the underwear make me sexier? No, I think I make the underwear sexier!! Lol.  Without me, they are just fabric in a drawer.

Sexiness comes from the core of ourselves. There are things that we can all do to feel sexier- from flirting with a stranger to swiping on our favorite lipgloss, or wearing our favorite shoes…And things others do help out too- A unexpected compliment, a wink here or there.

But ultimately we have to love ourselves first. No shoes, lipgloss, lover or stranger will help us feel sexier if we don’t love who we are, as a woman. We are all beautiful, amazing creatures of this earth and we need to stop being so hard on ourselves. Love yourself, literally and figuratively today… You may be surprised how sexy that makes you feel!!

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